Help I am having problems with Facebook
I am reading this more and more every day. What was your problem on Facebook?
- I deleted my profile but signed back in 3 months later and it was still there. How can they do this?
- I contacted Facebook about my profile being disabled and still fighting with the, how long does this take?
- I added a bunch of people from school and now I have to fill in a security code and they give me a warning about only adding people who are really my friends??
- Privacy settings…should I change them? What is the big issue?
- A family member has passed away, what happens to their Facebook account?
- My friend posted some photos of me - we are no longer friends and I want her to get rid of them and she won’t what do I do now?
There are so many issues with Facebook right now but I will try to respond to as many as I can
Question 1. Facebook stores your information for several reasons, if you disable your account and had been guilty of “bullying” they would need your information in order to investigate. Or if you have made threats to any individual.
Question 2, there is no set date it could take weeks or even months (from the stories that I have had heard.
Question 3, this is for your protection as there are friend adder bots out there that are sending thousands of requests. With this added protection it is stopping these bots.
Question 4, I can NOT stress this enough. Read up about this http://www.allfacebook.com/2009/02/facebook-privacy/ Years from now when you apply for that teachers job, or any job for that matter your photos could come back and haunt you. Yes, all those drunken photos, parties, you being caught doing things that were…well you know what I mean. Any one of your friends can right click that photo of you and God knows where it will end up. This is important on Facebook, take off your birthdate, not only would a criminal have your photo, your birthdate, schools you have attended, places of employment, even your kids names (and some people put their birth dates). Tighten up your privacy now, you may trust your friends but remember when you accept friendship from them you are also giving their friends access to your photos and information if you do not change your settings.
Question 5, In their privacy policy, FB say:
Memorializing Accounts. If we are notified that a user is deceased, we may memorialize the user’s account. In such cases we restrict profile access to confirmed friends, and allow friends and family to write on the user’s Wall in remembrance. We may close an account if we receive a formal request from the user’s next of kin or other proper legal request to do so.
I know that as a mother who has lost her son, it is good to have a page to go to somewhat like visiting a gravesite where I can see old photos, friends and people who have left memorial messages. So this is up to the family, but I would be interested in your thoughts.
Question 6 - Unfortunately Facebook will only take notice if they are impersonating someone (especially someone famous), or you report nude or pornographic photos. Facebook has become so massive that it is nearly impossible for them to keep up with the requests to re instate profiles, remove photos, and respond to every email. They are in the advertising business, we are NOT their customers. If you fall out with a friend or family member it is probably best to remove them as a friend rather than see the photos all the time. Better still for all the young ones out there, if someone takes your photo with their cellphone it is guaranteed it will show up on Facebook so hide your face. I talked to our local police last weekend. They are sick and tired of the complaints about Facebook because there is nothing they can do unless there are threats made. It is she said, he said, friends falling out and want their photos taken down etc and the Police can not help in that situation.
Here is another one that people never think of..all those status updates of you going away on holiday, going to the store back in 15 mins, taking Greg to soccer could be read by the WRONG person. Or I am home alone this weekend people..let’s party. Giving details about your kids, their ages, photos..hmmm are you getting this?
Facebook - having a Love/Hate relationship with them right now
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